Re: Girl glances at me a lot in class, and always tries to bump into m
When you are getting to know a woman, ask questions that show you are interested in who they are. Be a good listener. This will help make this as easy on yourself as you possibly can. Try to identify with what she is saying (i.e., either you can relate or you can't - either way it gives you something to talk about that you are an expert on - your own experiences and feelings).
Always be honest. You don't have to tell everything (this is not a court of law). But if you lie to make yourself seem better than who you think you are - you will have to remember each and every lie you tell - which will make for enormous pressure and anxiety.
No matter what happens, look at each woman you try to meet as an experience that you can learn from. Don't put pressure on yourself that this woman has to be "the one".
Good luck.
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