Open relationships

[DrewDevil]

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I've given some more thought to this thread and have re-read the OP, and I need to stipulate that although we've discussed the open relationship, I think in our case it was just more of a "breathing space" for myself, due to what I've said earlier (divorce, etc). I enjoy being flirtatious without worrying about a jealous boyfriend and I enjoy spending time with men, whether it's at a poker table or on a dinner date, out dancing, out gambling, etc.

This is not a "sex" thing for me, as an older women the sex drive isn't that of what the normal OOT poster is (ah hem, 19 year old male, etc) so it's not sex that I desire or look for from others as I describe my "open relationship" it's just the ability to have "relationships" with other men without the usually resulting jealousy feelings from the BF.

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Now I'm confused. Do you have sex with more than one man at a time, or are you just theoretically able to have sex with more than one man at a time?

I think it's not truly an open relationship unless the people are having sex outside the relationship, no? It may not be "about sex" for you, but that's what "open relationship" means, n'est-ce pas?