Female on Paxil, Things have changed

[Clarkmeister]

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OK here is/WAS the plan. Last night I was going to trade her mardi gras beads for a kiss but the opportunity did not present itself. I already have plans made with her for this weekend. As we have been discussing things and she has said (jokingly but at the same time with a tinge of seriousness) "I think you're just devious, and wouldn't be friends with me if you weren't trying to get laid" (Which is at least partly true...I doubt I would remain close with her if there 0.00% chance of any action at all)

So my plan was to take this line of reasoning, and get her in here Friday/Saturday night, and at one of the moments when we are particularly close (eg she is leaning over me to use my computer or something like that) say "Can I do something devious?" 'What do you mean?' "I want to kiss you" or something along those lines. Gives her the opportunity to say "ehh no" and get outta here for pushing the question when I'm supposed to be giving her time without actually making a physical move on her (Which i would consider to be a dick move) but also the opportunity for things to start in motion.

That WAS the plan.

She has decided she is going to get tested for mono tomorrow. Whether she gets tested or not, assuming the results won't be back before Friday night, what is my play if she says "i might have mono, thats a bad idea" ??? I had it all planned out in a way that i thought was still being pushy (and carries a great risk/reward) but better than sitting around twiddling my thumbs, and now this mono [censored] is going to interfere?

It's spring break next week, so this is my last chance to establish myself physically with the setup I have after a week of spending extensive amounts of time with her before we possibly don't even speak for a week (conversely, we could cement our plans to meet up, which are thin at best as of right now).

What's my play given the mono testing situation?[i] Assumption for repy posters: She does not actually have mono and is just her usual tired self. She has gotten tested at least 3 times in the past for mono which she is always scared she has, due to her extreme tiredness at all times. All times the result was negative, and I am fairly sure this time is no different.[i/i]

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arrrrrrrrghhhhhhhhhh. Brain hurts. Bang girl now.