Female on Paxil, Things have changed

[SammyKid11]

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I'm not really sure she would appreciate my seeking OOT advice or "Hey, I looked up some [censored] you could take to try to get off" at this stage...

edit: Could go with the "Why don't you say something to the doc" route, but she also might just not want to do that.

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You can't be serious. She wouldn't like that you've taken an interest in her and looked something up? What, are you figuring she's afraid the encyclopedia might be snickering and telling tales to the thesaurus? Or think she would prefer disinterest, sexual discomfort on your part, or an inability to discuss important things with her?

Jeez man, get some macho going.

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This is the right answer. You sound scared of this girl. You're so in awe of her and your feelings for her that you're constantly analyzing and plotting and worrying about what not to do. Girls don't take off their panties for guys like this very often...and girls don't subsequently want meaningful romantic relationships with guys like this very often.

Girls take their panties off for and want romantic relationships with guys that exude natural male confidence. The naysayer earlier in the thread was crude in calling you a loser...but some of what he said made a lot of sense. Decide what YOU want out of this, and then do the things that will give you a chance at getting those things. If you want a romantic relationship, push for that...don't give her an open-ended offer. That's horse [censored]. Girls won't respond to a "I'll be here if you ever decide you wanna f me." Girls respond to a guy who says, "I'm into you...I want to be with you, not be your girlfriend. If you want that, then that'd make me really happy and let's go for it. If you don't, I'm gonna move on and not torture myself and waste time in the same breath. Take some time to think about this if you need to, and let me know what you decide. I want you...if you want me, lemme know."

That she's even told you she's "considering" getting romantic with you is all the motivation you will EVER get from her to attempt this move. Who cares how much is Paxil and how much is her being a girl. Get what you want out of life if at all possible. If what you want is this girl, be willing to risk your torturous "friendship" with her to get what you REALLY want. And if you get it, don't f it up by questioning the motives...just be happy, be a good guy, have some fun, and see where it leads. If you don't get her...don't fret, just break things off with her and move on.