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I am attempting to advise a good friend on a developing relationship he is having with a girl he's crazy about. They currently spend about 5-6 nights per week together but have separate places. They both are talking very seriously about moving in together. The difference of opinion however lies in the issue of being engaged. While my friend definitely foresees marrying this girl if things continue to progress at the rate they have (they've been together a little under a year), he's not sure he wants to go out and buy a ring just now. She, on the other hand, has said there is no rush to get engaged, but that she won't move in under any circumstances if they are not engaged. [/ QUOTE ] Just dont talk about moving in again. If hes not sure about getting engaged yet, and she wont budge on this, its seems kind of pointless. Or if she mentions not moving in without a ring (especially if you didnt bring it up) dont fight her, just say "Ah you're so cute" turn back to watching whatever movie you were watching and dont bring it up again. I didnt say this is good advice, Id just like to see something like that go down. Then again, it depends how unreasonable she is in other areas, does she budge or comprimise a lot, or is she the type that always puts her foot down...if shes the latter, then I like the above advice. But since shes not rushed about getting engaged, which is good, the above is probably best remained a social experiement Id like to see in action. |
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