Unrequited love - what to do?

[Hopey]

First of all:

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I first saw her across a crowded room in 1999

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Dude, it's been 8 years. You're not a potential boyfriend...you've become a stalker. If she didn't want you 8 years ago, 7 years ago, 6 years ago, 5 years ago...etc...she won't want you now. Get over her. You're wasting your life and your time.

She doesn't respect you. She sees you as a snivelling worm who is at her beck and call. You're her "friend"...but only when she has nothing else to do and needs an ego boost by hanging around someone who worships her. She'll never love you.

Secondly:

You may have answered this already, but have you had sex with any other women in the last 8 years? I'm scared that your answer will be "no".

Banging a few other chicks will put things in perspective when it comes to this girl. Trust me.