Tough decisions with kickers

[Oberonn]

If you read the OP's posts, the skill set you describe is exactly what he has trouble with.

Avoiding most tough situations is a viable way of dealing with them until you have more skills. You can work on them a little at a time.

Rather than call me a nit why don't you enlighten the OP with insight to gain the skill set you describe?

For what it is worth, I may be a douche but I am never a nit.