In all seriousness, what are you looking for in a woman?

[Aloysius]

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you don't really know til you find it, I humbly submit.

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I've had 2 very long relationships, and a couple shorter ones. I always used to make "adjustments" based on things I didn't like about my previous gfs, and have found this isn't a great strategy, and am trying to be more open-minded. I think part of maturing is realizing you don't know everything about yourself, and what you want at the end of the day. And sometimes people can really surprise you.

That being said:

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intelligence, a quick wit (so obviously a sense of humor), compassioniate, sincere, compatible with me sexually (ie. we both generally want it the same amount, both have the same level of kinky, etc), willing to try new things, makes an effort to share (or at least understand) my interests, has a passion in her life that isnt me (or at least some outlet that doesnt involve me in anyway), and she cant be fat. (Athletic would be nice, but thats rare in my age group)

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That's about right for me also. Deal-breakers are (in order of priority) if she is not physically attractive to me (reaad "Survival of the Prettiest", nice dissection of why people are attracted to one another), not smart, humorless, co-dependent type.

-Al