Significant Other Gains A Large Amount Of Fat

[Jacques]

50 pounds is totally out of hand and you need to act early in order to avoid such an extreme case.

My recommendation is that if your SO gains 2-3 pounds or whatever you can notice, you need to exercise more and do some weights in order to improve your own appearance. In my experience it is a great way to lead by example and it works. Do not wait, a woman can dress in a way to hide weight gain for a while but waiting before addressing the situation sends the wrong message.

A tricky case is a woman who lost a lot of weight before meeting you and is just gaining it back. I didn't have to face that but it can be more challenging.