Question for happily married people

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I respectfully disagree with your thoughts here.

[/ QUOTE ]I am curious as to what parts you disagree with? Are you saying that working on your emotional state is effective and you know this from personal experience? If so, I would be curious to hear your experiences if you are inclined to share. Also, I would be curious if other things were going on in your life as well and I would be curious as to causation versus correlation.

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FishNChips pretty much summed it up.

C'mon, we're humans! Yeah, genetics plays a big role. I think we can all agree to that. But we can't change our inner feelings/emotional state???
If you're falling back on 'everythings biological, prove me wrong', well, I guess you win. The whole nature/nurture debate is beyond this thread.

IMO, we're emotional beings. Our emotions can seriously affect our relationships. Just as I think our emotional state can be destroyed, I think we can build it up. If you want to consider this a genetic trait, fine, we'll just be looking at different sides of the same coin.

I also believe in God. Do I have to go find a scientific study on that too?