So I had a date tonight - Page 17

Claunchy · #**161** 06-12-2007, 03:46 AM

LOL @ Chuddo.

I cringed at like every other word in that letter. Goofy, stop being so damn melodramatic and sappy. Next girl that comes along, just make your intentions clear from the start. If she's not receptive, move the [censored] on.

samsonh · #**162** 06-12-2007, 03:46 AM

wtf is wrong with you. This is so depressing that someone can have such little self confidence. My God. Just go make out with some random girl. Just do it. This is so awful.

findingneema · #**163** 06-12-2007, 03:49 AM

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I'm wondering what would happen if goofy, dids, and I went clubbing together as a trio.

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Dids would hit it with fat chick, goofy would get emo after getting rejected for a dance, and ericw would try and comfort goofy hoping to turn him teh ghey.

bigbabyjesus · #**164** 06-12-2007, 04:33 AM

That letter is one of the most digusting things I've ever seen.

nation · #**165** 06-12-2007, 04:35 AM

omfg goofy what were you thinking?

i can't remember the last time reading anything made me THAT uncomfortable.

Wretchy · #**166** 06-12-2007, 04:41 AM

Roger Mainfield · #**167** 06-12-2007, 04:58 AM

Ya I was squirming, I get drunk and write stupid [censored] to girls. But in the morning I'm like WTF?!?!?! And delete it or what not. I am a mile away from having the balls to sit there whilst she reads that letter in front of me. In fact, it would probably be the most awckard moment of my life.

Girls really don't even respect this either, they want to be treated like objects, it is built in that they want to try and "earn" you too. Some kinds of girls might LOVE a letter like that, but it's clear that your girl woudln't be interested at all.

TBH you should go to a club, be baller, and shag a random girl, and then repeat and repeat etc... After a few girls you will start feeling a lot better about yourself, and have more confidence. If you can convey that you are sexually interested in a girl through body language, it is 1000000X as effective as that letter. And hopefully mistakes like this won't occur.

felix83 · #**168** 06-12-2007, 07:46 AM

i've made terrible mistakes like this before. maybe not quite as bad but i've had similar conversations, and they never ever ever ever ever lead to anything other than talking for 5 hours about [censored]. You will never get into a college girl's pants after a conversation like this, guaranteed.

Mr. Philosophy · #**169** 06-12-2007, 09:08 AM

GB,

Next time you want to hook-up with a girl, do the exact opposite of what you did with this chick.

Georgia Avenue · #**170** 06-12-2007, 09:09 AM

Yeah, despite how gross this is, I've totally been there before...a bit younger than goofy but yeah, being young and romantic makes you do things like this. It's all about self-indentification. We see ourselves as "the kind of guy who..." ya know what I'm sayin?

"I'm not the kind of guy who can just go up to a chick and start talking" so we dont.

"I'm not the kind of guy who can just kiss a girl like a blitkrieg dive-bomber" etc.

So we start thinking of ourselves as good guys, and any kind of selfish behavior as sleazy. And maybe it is sleazy, and manipulative, to try and get a girl to kiss you if she doesn't really really want to. And maybe, if you sit around and write gay notes long enough, you'll luckbox into a girl who's aggressive enough to just plant one on you first...but the chances of her being some psycho-bitch who just wants you because you seem easy to dominate are high...and then you end up getting married and wasting 10 years of yr life HACHACKAKKAKCAKAhKC*AHCthppt TILT.

Anyway. You need to change the way you see yourself dude. You don't have to be some fake PUA a-hole, but you CAN be a guy who can read the signs of what a chick wants you to do to get her into the sack...the first step is to start taking advice from people who have been there and stop following your fishy, misguided instincts.

--GA