OOT relationship experts-- advice needed. TL/DR

[ActionJeff]

OP,

do you think any of these clowns responding to you can give you a meaningful answer. Do you think any of them know anything about life or love? I sure as hell don't

[kmak]

Excellent use of paragraphs. Made the story much more enjoyable.

[unbluffable]

as usual, OOT sucks ass

dude, if you like relationship by all means you should be in a relationship. The College Bachelor life is great,but definitely not for everyone. Focus on finding a girl who you would consider a good college friend and see where things go romantically. Tell Kristen you want to stay friends and you would love for her to visit you in college. As far as how to attract girls, it doesn't sound to me like you will have any problems at college.

i would let her listen to the songs if you think they are that good

what school?

rkd

[Turtle Head]

why, even as a dumb 16 year old, did you decide you couldn't see her for THREE YEARS? 600 miles is a ~10 hour bus ride. which would probably cost like 100-200 dollars. which even when i was 16, was not all that much money, to see the girl of my dreams.

that's the part of the story i am curious about, it doesn't make sense to me.

other than that, i think you should just go for it. love is sweet and doesn't make sense, just give it your all and see what happens.

[unbluffable]

yea, 600 miles is not long distance

my girl lived in russia why i lived in us and we did fine. of course, we both had sex with other people which is the tricky part

[SuperUberBob]

At your age, the last thing you need is any sort of a serious relationship.

Go out, enjoy life and make friends at college. It's only four years long...for most people.

[inside??]

Carpe Diem!!!!

Seriously, tell her how you feel and see what her reaction is. She isn't going to lead you on. If it was a long time ago and she doesn't feel it she may not want to hurt your feelings but you should get an idea from her reaction. I agree at your age you shouldn't be tied down to one girl. Uni is going to be the best years of your life, so that freedom will be priceless. If you want to make a 600 mile road trip once in a while do it. It is easy to romanticize summer love but once you get to college every weekend with be filled with memorable experiences.

Oh yeah and post pics, we deserve it for this solid advice.

[Spota]

[ QUOTE ]
I read that you are senior in high school and I stopped reading, you are going to be a totally different person in 3yrs and still changing, don't take anything to seriously at this point in your life.

[/ QUOTE ]

Seriously. Come back in 5 yrs.

[dchz]

GRUNCH:

CHASE TAILS AT NEW SCHOOL AND IT'S NOT EVEN CLOSE

[ESnow]

Watch the movie Swingers.

Then watch it again.

And again. And again.

Sweating over some chick you're broken up with is a fool's errand. I know cause I've done it too much myself.

In college, go meet as many new women as you can. Not necessarily sleep with them, but meet them. I guarantee you'll meet a ton of women out there who make you realize that old love was fine at the time, but far far better awaits.