Hitting on visitors

[NLSoldier]

do you think him having a problem with what you did and her having to lie to her mom about where she was sleeping are maybe sorta related in that their culture has very different views of hooking up or dating or w/e?

otherwise i'd say hes just pissed cuz he wanted to bang her.

[JDalla]

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do you think him having a problem with what you did and her having to lie to her mom about where she was sleeping are maybe sorta related in that their culture has very different views of hooking up or dating or w/e?

otherwise i'd say hes just pissed cuz he wanted to bang her.

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well he did go on about how the only reason she trusted a random guy on the internet was because he's Aremenians, and Armenians always stick together, etc. etc.

I strongly disagree with his sentiments. He told me his cousin would have been a lot more upset about it (if he had been there) because he is "more traditional."

[bd8802]

Sounds to me like this was supposed to be an arranged marriage, and you messed it up.

[fuzzwonder]

tell your racist roommate to treat women like people. and to shut up his face.

[splashpot]

I honestly want to know what his reaction is to "So all Armenian girls are off limits to everyone you know?" and "All white girls are like my sisters and thus off limits to you."

[El Diablo]

J,

"He met her on the internet and met her 10 minutes before I did irl. meh."

Hold on, dude. That sounds like you're arguing that she's fair game, period. No way, your roomie gets a girl off the Internet to come hang out, he definitely has dibs.

[fuzzwonder]

-wrong thread-

[JDalla]

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J,

"He met her on the internet and met her 10 minutes before I did irl. meh."

Hold on, dude. That sounds like you're arguing that she's fair game, period. No way, your roomie gets a girl off the Internet to come hang out, he definitely has dibs.

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I was just responding to Scary Tiger saying "you stole his girl," because she's not exactly "his girl."

But if he wants dibs he has to say something in the bar when I'm like "This is a strange situation...I think I can do something here." ...

maybe I should have checked with him more clearly. I'm fairly certain I didn't cockblock him at all, knowing him I don't think anything was going to materialize there that night. I was actually saying things to her like "you should date him next year, he's going to be the president of this organization (which is true)" etc.

[traz]

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J,

"He met her on the internet and met her 10 minutes before I did irl. meh."

Hold on, dude. That sounds like you're arguing that she's fair game, period. No way, your roomie gets a girl off the Internet to come hang out, he definitely has dibs.

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But he needs to express this in some way. He can't bring a girl over for seemingly non-romantic purposes, NOT show any indication that he wants her, and then blow up at the end of the night.

However if he showed that he wanted her, or said something near the beginning of the night...then OP probably should have backed off

[fuzzwonder]

he pretty much stated his non-intentions with a [censored] up comment like "blah blah sister" at which point she is an adult and is available. the end. your roommate is an idiot.