Found out my roomate's GF used to be a mega-ho

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Not your job to reveal this to him. It can only create tension and general badness. Also she may have already told him about past exploits and he elected to keep it to himself

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It depends on how close the OP and "Joe" are. If they're just roommates and/or have
only been friends for a few years/not that close, etc., then maybe I agree...

But if the OP and "Joe" grew up together or have been best buds for the past 10 years, etc., then it is his job.

[Dominic]

#1 This is none of your business

#2 This is none of your business

3# If Maria wants to start over and forget a past others might find objentionable (YOU, perhaps??) it is - I repeat -NONE OF YOUR [censored] BUSINESS.

[natedogg]

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They estimated that during this time period Maria banged roughly 20-25 guys.

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If two girls are together talking about another girl and say the above, then it is MUCH more likely that she has banged 5 guys than their estimate of 25.

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The fact that the OP seems to want to believe at face value everything that these people have said about Maria leads me to suspect that he has never liked her much. This is his excuse to break them up.

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Personally, this would make me like her more, esp. if she was my fiance.

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[dustyn]

What Dom said - this is none of your business at all. You are more likely to be seen as the [censored] here by both Joe and Maria than as some sort of "righteous truthteller." The odds of you seriously hurting two friendships are high because you are out spewing rumors about your roomates GF's sexual history. Just STFU and let them deal with their own relationship.

[pokerspite]

What do you hope to accomplish by telling your roomate?

Her past bothers you. So what?

If he really loves this girl, and since he's been with her for three years its probably a safe bet, there is nothing you can tell him that is going to change his mind about her.

Anything you say will be seen as meddling, and rightfully so, by all partys involved.

If you value your friendship with this guy, keep your nose out of it. His girlfriend will make life holy hell for you and if it comes down to a decision between you or her, trust me, he won't choose you.

[AntonHeat]

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Book the band for the wedding.

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<font color="yellow"> GOLD! </font>

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ahahah thats a classic right there

[oreopimp]

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and 20-25 guys in the past...whoever thinks this is a large number is comedy...

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It was 20-25 guys in about 1 year immediately before they started dating. I don't know how many guys she did prior to this time period. Although I do know from the horse's mouth that she had an abortion in high school.

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I have to think everyone hates this girl, or there is a huge amount of gossip here seperating fact from fiction. When someone gets a reputation, stories start to collect like tumbleweeds...sure it might all be true. But you know what 20-25 guys/girls whatever...what does it matter. You know I dated a girl 6 years, from early high school and on, and we had breaks and I messed around, when we broke up I hadnt been with that many girls...then we split up and in a period of about a year, maybe year and a half that number shot up big time, way past the 20-25.

And you know what, did it make me a bad person? did it radically change how people percieve me? no. so who are you or anybody else to knock this girl for doing what most guys would love to do...a whole lotta [censor]ing.

ask yourself. is she faithful to your friend? do they have a great time with each other? are they happy?

Not many people like to be truthful about their sexual past when asked, its a senstive issue, in fact, unless the bitch is a virgin I doubt you will ever hear a truthful answer, unless of course she really only has been with 2-3 guys. say I get asked that question, am I really going to tell a girl Im just dating that the amount of girls Ive been with is in the triple digits, thats just something I dont want said, even though most girls are aware enough to know that most guys have been with a decent amount of women

[Iconoclastic]

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I would want to know if I were the guy. If you didn't tell me, you would no longer be my friend.

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Precisely.

Man, I have a GF of 3 years too. Thank god my name isn't Joe.

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But your name could very well be "Joe".

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nh

[robber baron]

tell your friend to get a STD test, seriously.

[Rootabager]

25-30 isnt alot for a 28 year old. I would say like 100 would be more thread worthy. I would definatly tell him though. What kind of guys dont tell their friends stuff like this. I know my friends would rag on me for dating such a [censored].