How Long Before You Say " I LuV U"?

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When you're sure it's true.

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When you're sure it's true.

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wrong

[mother_brain]

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after 23 BJs you are allowed to say it. Never before.

Before then she doesn't love you, so no reason to love her.

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yeah this seems good

[Darth Poker]

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usually, the girl would say it far earlier - and I'm not sure that they weren't passionately infatuated and making the common mistake of not knowing where the real line differentiating the two feelings was.

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I find it hard to believe any girl could be "passionately infatuated" with a guy who uses the username Darth Poker.

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yep, it happens...she and I have been together for 4+ years with no end in sight. I'm a geek just like the 1000's of other geeks on this forum - I like Star Wars, Slayer, poker, golf, NFL football, South Park, reading and a whole bunch of other geeky [censored]. someday, when you're older and have developed self confidence and a personality, and really dont give a flying [censored] about winning a popularity contest, girls will like you also.

[LeatherFace]

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usually, the girl would say it far earlier - and I'm not sure that they weren't passionately infatuated and making the common mistake of not knowing where the real line differentiating the two feelings was.

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I find it hard to believe any girl could be "passionately infatuated" with a guy who uses the username Darth Poker.

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yep, it happens...she and I have been together for 4+ years with no end in sight. I'm a geek just like the 1000's of other geeks on this forum - I like Star Wars, Slayer, poker, golf, NFL football, South Park, reading and a whole bunch of other geeky [censored]. someday, when you're older and have developed self confidence and a personality, and really dont give a flying [censored] about winning a popularity contest, girls will like you also.

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Woh a new breed! The bad boy geek who doesn't have a care in the world. He sports his huge brown framed glasses with pride, plays dungeon and dragons at the bar, and eats his twizzlers relentlessly. The chicks? They [censored] dig it, man.

[jws43yale]

When you type it to your interenet gf, make sure to type the actually word and not half-capitalized abbreviation.

[MCS]

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When you're sure it's true.

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Explain why. I'm pretty straightforward. I've never told a girl this and had a negative reaction. If I did, I figure I'll deal with it. I've been the first to say it like 1/3 of the time, if that matters.

I do agree with your earlier post re: the timeline.

[Full Metal]

I said it while I was sloshed one month in, she dumped me the following morning.

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Well, if you figure you'd deal with in than I guess that will work for you, but for most people who don't have super smooth problem handling skills I'd say telling a girl you love them when they don't love you is asking for a lot of trouble.




George: You have any idea how fast these things deteriorate when there's an 'I love you' out of the bag? You can't have a relationship where one person says, "I love you", and the other says, "I'm hungry. Let's get something to eat.".

Jerry: Unless you're married.

George: I mean, now she thinks that I'm one of these guys that love her. Nobody wants to be with somebody that loves them.

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Well, if you figure you'd deal with in than I guess that will work for you, but for most people who don't have super smooth problem handling skills I'd say telling a girl you love them when they don't love you is asking for a lot of trouble.

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Fair enough. I figure I'm unlikely to be sure I feel that way unless she and I are pretty serious, in which case she's very likely to feel the same way.