Kinda weird situation...

[ggbmanESmiHERO]

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I might be a nut, but at least I know what the word relationship means.

Yeah, see, in my circles, we don't go out to dinner w/ our close friend's girlfriend to talk about what's bothering her about her relationship.

WOW, GABE, YOU REALLY GOT ME THERE!!!!! Please.

Anyway, what's acceptable behavior to you with your close friend's girlfriend is different than what is kosher in my circles, whatever. I choose not to have close friends who think about this like you do, and I'm sure you feel likewise, no biggie.

Let me ask you this, though. Does your close friend know that you have these conversations with his girlfriend about their relationship?

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Do you really know what the word relationship means or do you speand more time on 2+2 than anyone else? I mean I guess if PMing Bruiser counts as a relationship then you would clearly have plently of experience but I have a feeling actual women are probably out of your leauge bro.

Yeah, going out with you friends girlfriend to talk about her relationship is waaay off base. Esp. when ggbman has said he is good friends with her? You dont talk about relationships with your good friends? Idiot!

and btw, ggbman really did get you there. HAHAHHAHAHA LOLLLLLLER. nigga please

ggbmanESmiHERO

El D eats dog poop!

HOLLA

[ggbman]

Not me dude. El D knows anything i wanted to say to him i would on this account. And i have.

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Not me dude. El D knows anything i wanted to say to him i would on this account. And i have.

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Yeah I understand this, I am just saying in general whoever did that... Wow.

[ggbmanESmiHERO]

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[daryn]

see ya later ggb hero

[Kassem D.]

the ol 'sympathetic shoulder'.

[cardsharkk04]

Well I wasted my time on this thread I guess I'll say that
I'm leaning towards GGB's side on this one
There are some things that the chick does that are out of
GBB's control and shouldn't be expected to control. Some of
the comments made seem to be stemming from the earlier grudge match

[EMc]

gabe,
I see what El D is talking about, and it makes sense. You seemed like a really good guy on PPM and I know you have no malicious intent whatsoever.

However, I have 2 points that I want to share with you just to get you thinking. About a year and a half ago my friends girlfriend, whom I had never met, IMed me for some asisine reason. Anyway, so started one day talking to me about her problems, and one thing lead to another, and bad I was talking to her everyday. THis guy was a good friend of mine at the time, but is a terrible boyfriend (conplusive cheater, had 3 girlfriends at the time.) So anyway, she would IM me every freaking day, and being a good friend, I didnt want her to brake up with him, so I stuck it out and made her happy every night. Granted this girl has more issues than time and more problems than a math book, but still, I felt I was being a good friend. After a while, I started to develop a pretty strong emotional relationship with this girl, and every time I tried to stop it, she would flip. Anyway, one day I just decided that was it, and a week later they broke up. It lead to a lot of problems btwn us b/c there came a time where she would turn to me with ALL her problems, and not him, and I knew more about her than he did. MORAL: Talking to the girl like this can lead to problems with your good buddy. It just snowballs and can lead to more problems than its worth

Story 2: My (different) friend just got a girlfriend. They hooked up for a while and eventually lead to a relationship. Anyway, a few weeks ago he asked if I wanted to go to a movie and to the mall, for no apparent reason, other than just to chill. So as we are walking to my car, she shows up, and voila, I was the third wheel. It sucks, remember that. When we got to parties and stuff, usually me him and her leave together, and Ill admit, its weird. Even when other friends are around, it might still be weird for you. Keep that in mind.

If I was in your shoes, I would ask my friend. Hes not gonna say no, but its a courtesy. You should go and drink a couple of white russians and jack and cokes, and not still any this time.

[ggbman]

EMC,

Thanks for the advice. A few points... I was friends with girl before they were going out, so we are comfortable hanging out in any environment, she is a cool friend.

Also, i am frinds with tons of people going to this event, both in the room we would be in and otherwise, so i could literally go, not hang out with them at all, and have an awesome time.

Generally, i feel that having more white russians is always the correct move! Looking forward to seeing you on next years cruise man!

Gabe

[El Diablo]

ggisyourhero: i am cool w/ ggbman, so f you!

skunk: not a bad day at all, in fact, a pretty damn good one. It's just that my close friends and I all sort of believe in living by a set of "codes" and when I hear about stuff outside of that, it rubs me the wrong way is all.

gg: when you get to be my age, you'll realize that a lot of times when you are just trying to be cool w/ some chick, even though you have no intentions, you're kinda mainly trying to bang her. I have some good friends who are female, but they are girls who I explicitly have no sexual interest in and we're just close friends, they're just like one of my close guy friends. The girls who I would hook up with, except that they're going out with someone, well, those are girls that even if I'm being completely sincere when I'm just comforting them, well, really, I'm not.