TRANSALATION: Growing Some Balls
She told me I could kiss her...I let the episode of family guy end...she started another one....2 hours later....she left, let me know on the way out that i "need to grow some balls, next time we get drunk we will hook up".
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Growing Some Balls
Translation: I like you and but I can't be in a long term relationship with someone that lets me run over them. I need someone that will stand up for themselves and call me on my bull****. If you can 'man-up' and tell me when I piss you off then MAYBE we could be with eachother....
This phrase works very well for me when a women disrespects me, "I don't like the way your talking to me!" After that follow the wisdom of a shampoo bottle 'rinse-and-repeat'. Say it about 3 to fours times in a controlled and slightly angry voice and that smooths over the problem quite nicely. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
It is OK to be a little selfish in realtionships and ask for what you want and tell people off when they tick you off. If you can lose this emotional-drunken-infatuation with her and replace it with a selfish determination to get what you want.....then things could work out.
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