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That said, she has definitely done/said stuff to lead you on recently, have you made that point to her?

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She made that point to me. She is sending seriously mixed signals. Telling me at times that she feels bad about doing that and then saying "I dunnoooooo" after (like she did after we made out, and then again after this weekend), and that she is worried I'm going to come out of this hating her if it takes one of several possible endings. I think this is part of the reason she ISN'T letting this go farther, she's sure (and maybe/probably right) that I would put a little too much emotional stock into her.
Oh but to the mixed signals part, she's also frequently discussing future things happening. Our conversations go like "i feel bad about making you think that maybe im just leading you on but im not" <sex joke or two > "haha speaking of which, you better last more than 8 seconds or im going to kill you"

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Can I also ask: Assuming you had the opportunity to get it on with another chick (casually) in the meantime, would you consider it?

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I do not know. I have been considering going out and testing the waters which I have not done for well over a year, because frankly I am in a steady-state with this girl, and throwing other women into the mix would complicate an already complicated situation. Not to mention that if this really IS going anywhere, and I hook up with another girl, that would be greenlighting her to go hook up with another guy which would only set me back.

She's currently on AIM trying to get me to come over to do homework. I'm going to go and see what happens.