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I used to be all for divorce if things went bad, but after having friends go through parents divorcing and realizing how lucky I am that I don't have really any dysfunction, i dont think I would get divorced easily at all. I'd do my best to make it work if I had kids. I mean i'd do my best anyways but I mean even if it was really really bad.

It's huge to me having that stability back home in PA to go back to, if things are going bad or whatever, I always have that to go to. It's the one normalizing factor in my life. And I don't mean to make you feel bad Jay, but that really sucks that those two kids are getting your room. I wouldn't do that to my children, even if they were 21. I wouldn't make my own child feel unwelcome just to impress or appease my new wife, and I sure as hell would never charge my kid rent. I would go and get a bigger house if I had to, that's what happens when you make your family bigger like that.

Anyways what I'm trying to say is I'm pretty impressed by you Jay, you seem like a tough kid.