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You need to just cut all ties with this girl immediately. You say you are best friends, SIKE. You are too into this girl to be her best friend. Remaining friends with her is going to be unhealthy for you.

You need to find other chicks and STOP CALLING THIS GIRL. Start being busy when she calls or IMs you or whatever. Work into conversations that you are talking to girls. It's about the only chance you have of getting this girl (but it's pretty much impossible.)

It's going to be hard to just drop her at first but TRUST ME. You will be so much better in the future.

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100% correct. Tell her the reasons you are doing this (with the emphasis on "you are being a teasing bitch" and not "i love you too much..."). When she tries to get back with you, which she will, rebuff her shortly and coldly. After at least a week, then you can entertain seeing her again, but only if it is explicitly clear before hand that you are going to have sex.

No matter how tough it is short term this is what you need to do.

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There is no chance of the OP doing this. None. Zero. Zilch. There has been a wealth of valuable advice in this thread, (that I would have killed for at the age of 17), and he has followed exactly none of it. He is a masochist. He is scared of sex.
He says he wants to let his relationship die in the summer. You dweeb. You don't have a relationship. I have a better relationship with my cat than you have with this girl.
For me the end was when you stated that you were overjoyed that she let you touch her hair. If you can't see where this is wrong, (and it is wrong on so many levels), then you are without hope on an epic scale.