Re: New to OOT. Have custody of my nephews. LONG
That's tough OP.
Do you think that putting the children in foster care, however much you might not like the idea, could help accelerate the mom's recovery from her drug habit?
I can't begin to account for her actions, but there is a bit of a safety blanket for her knowing that the children are in good hands regardless of whether she makes it through rehab, relapses, or whatever. With the children in state custody, that certainty is removed so it might help impel her to getting and staying clean.
No real advice, but despite your feelings I would suggest that you don't endanger your marriage because your sister can't stay sober to take care of her kids. However, that is your decision, and I can completely see your side.
On a side note, have the kids been to counseling?
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