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If she goes and bangs another guy tomorrow, it will bother you just as much if you haven't banged her as it will if you do bang her.
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I think a bright light just flashed in front of me.
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Doc, theres been flashing bright lights throughout this whole ordeal
People ARE telling you this stuff from their own experience and trying to save you the trouble. The poster you quoted is dead on. You're going to get eaten up inside either way if she sleeps with another guy. Sleep with her, and don't act like it means the world to you becuase it might not mean much to her.
On a serious note, assuming the snuggle/boner thing is in relation to this girl, I don't see how you can possibly sleep with this girl if you're not comfortable enough to let her feel an erection on her backside...
Because of this, I think maybe we, the advisors, have expected far too much of you. But you should try to listen to the great advice others before me have put forth and get this ordeal over with one way or the other...You'll feel a huge weight off your shoulders.
(PS. I agree she has issues if she let you know about getting passed around....just cruel).