[Phil153]

Your penis isn't too large. The problem is that her vagina isn't ready for cock. Keep trying and eventually you'll get there. The biggest problem is her body getting tense at this weird new experience. Another problem could be lubrication.

FWIW it took about two months with my gf (I was 16, her 18, both virgins) to get anything working. We tried to have sex on the first date, which ended up being a total disaster, and two months later we finally made it. I'm in the upper end of average, but still very normal sized. The feeling when you finally get there and get it all the way in is unmistakable, and it's pretty much smooth sailing from there.

I went through a similar thing with the whole precum thing too - was [censored] scared for two weeks when her period was late (she said it was regular like clockwork). I think the whole precum thing is overblown unless you're trigger happy, which is unlikely at 22.

Good luck!