Re: If you died today....
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Or the grieving process is somehow cheapened or lessened for the living?
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i think it is. obv it is still sad that they died, but it seems strange grieving the death of someone who wanted to die.
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lol as if it was some rationale decision on their part. funerals should adapt depending on who died.
if a 20 yr old kid dies from suicide, you mourn what could have been, how they could have gotten past these issues and lived a happy life, etc. this is a life that ended tragically and it doesn't matter that it was suicide.
if a 100 year old guy dies, however, it doesn't exactly make sense to stand around, screaming to the heavens "WHY? WHY DID YOU HAVE TO TAKE HIM?" Instead, you celebrate their life.
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