Re: Private Dancer
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I would totally move out there, but if I did that she'd forever see me as this weak follower dude and that wouldn't work...plus she lives in a sucky place
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I think the sucky place is a much bigger problem, honestly. There's probably enough history to fight through the former, assuming she even perceives it as weak - it seems pretty ballsy to me to [censored] pick up and go on what is essentially a whim like that. Crazy and/or obsessive looking would be my worries.
Going out to visit her if you're not interested in the LDR or moving seems like a bad idea. How can it possibly turn out well? Either things eventually get awkward, which sucks, or you are just torturing yourself with what you can't or won't have. I understand the impulse, but it seems unwise.
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