Re: How do you handle this fine line??
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"For example, most of my guy friends feel the need to fix the problems that their girlfriends/wives complain about. Instead of simply listening and empathizing, they offer suggestions which are not always what's needed during these venting sessions."
dude, anybody that has seen "white men cant jump" knows this...
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Chris Rock covers it too in his 2nd special.
OP, I really hope you seized the opportunity to have the conversation you should have had years ago. I'm guessing you don't talk about sex either, otherwise you'd know that you're probably better off not initiating the conversation when she's doing it.
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