Re: The End of the Affair
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I just told an ex this morning that we have to stop speaking, because, well frankly, its tearing us both apart. I'm in the minority though, I actually feel relieved that I don't have to deal with it anymore. Its still hard blocking her on chat, deleting her number from my phone, and blocking her on facebook, especially when she deserves better.
I guess I'm too calculated.
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This is me. When a relationship ends for me I just close off all contact until I'm ready to see them again. That might be months depending on how I feel. It's the only way I can handle it.
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Same here. I really think this is best for everyone involved. Also, I think it's only really possible to be friends again until both parties have moved onto other relationships. I've had a 5-year and 8-year, so speaking from this experience. But I imagine what I said is true for any relationship of emotional significance.
-Al
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