Re: The End of the Affair
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hmm, keikiwai makes a serious post?
But seriously, I just got out of a 3-year-long relationship, mostly for lack of communication. I guess when it ended I mostly listened to a lot of music, hung out with friends, partied, went to school, etc. I think that when you break up, it's a good time to do all the things you couldn't when you were putting so much time into the relationship. FWIW though, it wasn't really my decision to end it...I mean, it was a good thing, but I could never pull the trigger. So I guess I didn't have to worry about breaking it to her. After it happened, we were cool for awhile until I found out she had been dating another guy for a couple of weeks and didn't tell me so I got mad and basically stopped talking to her (she found out that I knew).
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same thing happened to me but i knew she was cheating on me for like a month before. i didnt love her so i did the only rational thing i could... continue having sex and then wait till she broke up with me b/c she wanted to date the other dude. Kinda of [censored] on both of our parts but till this day she never knew that i knew she was cheating on me. I guess thats why i can still pretend to be cordial-friends with her
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