Thread: Need PUA advice
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Old 09-13-2007, 11:43 PM
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Default Re: Need PUA advice

You are in the friend zone my friend. Alcohol (and a hell of a lot of it) is the only thing that can possibly get you out of it, unfortunately only in the very short term (read: one night).

Advice for next time:

Less bullshitting and sober hangouts... just get down to business and she will have more respect for you. Everyone makes this mistake first semester of freshman year of college. I didn't have more than a one minute conversation with my long term F-buddy during my entire sophmore and junior year unless we were going out/partying etc and she was even more obsessed with me because of it. I would just talk to her on AIM once per week and say whats up in dining halls and the student union etc... Anytime either of us were drunk and I wasn't hooking up with someone else we'd get it on. I would rarely initiate.

Always seem in demand, never seem desperate. How well your conversations are going is not a great indicator of how 'in' you are... friends can have great conversations too. Save that for the pillow talk.
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