[Nickelcity]

When they got married, they probably were like me, thinking that it was going to last. I don't think our genetics are superior or anything like that, I just respected these guys and thought they'd put the effort in, rather than just letting it go. Maybe some things are worth fighting for. It's unfair for me to call their decisions selfish and cowardly, but I can't help thinking I'm at least partially right.

My wife and I have talked about it a lot. We are just trying to use our time now to build our relationsip with each other, and with other successful couples we know. With all the stress of day to day life, it's hard to find the energy and commitment to work on the important things.