Re: Infidelity
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Slim, I'm confused- where are you going, with all of this "affairs are an addiction/let's learn about affairs" information?. ... It doesn't seem like a healthy path
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Agreed. Put down the internets and all this googling affairs stuff and go see a counselor. Don't try to figure it out because you won't be able to. In your mind it is inexcusable and you are trying to find information/resources to back you up -- she will never look at it that way because she is the one that cheated.
If you want a divorce, get one. If you don't, go to work on restoring your marriage, but that does not involve making your wife wear a scarlet A... somehow you will have to come to terms with the affair and move past it - and that won't be easy.
You'd be well served to figure out what YOU want from here on our rather than what your counselor, some website, or anyone else here is telling you to do.
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