Re: Infidelity
I'm not married, but I think it's safe to assume that in the majority of marriages, arising problems are inevitable. So when they do occur, it's the responsibility of each party to explore and solve these problems together in a healthy and constructive manner. This is the responsible, mature thing to do.
Having said this, I can't believe some of the advice I'm reading. I'm sure the OP could have done things differently in the marriage (nobody is perfect), but it is totally unfair to suggest that the OP somehow drove his wife to the arms of another man and is to blame for her adulteration. Ya, like someone held a gun to her head and said, "Screw your boss' brains out for 2 years." I don't care who you are, there is no justification for an adulterous affair. If she was that intent on saving her unhappy marriage, she should have done the right thing and openly and honestly communicated her thoughts with her husband, giving them both a chance to talk about ways they can rebuild their marriage together as a couple in a positive and beneficial way.
Just my 2 cents worth.
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