[dchz]

alrighty, here are mine:

1. I'm not very socially adapt, people would see me as outgoing but i'm just not the same with girls that i'm attracted to.

2. despite all my attempts and promises to go out more and get out of my comfort zone, i think my opponents at the poker table do enough of that to me for me not to get out more

3. I'm an Asian male at a predominately white baptist college.

4. all my upper lever classes leave me with 0 classes with hot girls, and i play a lot of poker in my free time

5. i've gotten significantly fatter since i graduated high school, back then i was in tip top shape, now i'm a fatty with some muscle

6. i don't groom myself as well as i used to, i haven't had a hair cut nor bought new cloth in at least 1 and 1/2 years

7. i have a short attention span as i forgot the rest of the things on my mental list that i made.

but i would like to get tips on how to may be over come some of these?

ADDITION: also i think i fear rejection to some degree even though i realize that it's better to act and get rejected and adapt and learn than to not act at all, but i just can't act in some spots