Re: Marriage: One unfaithfulness exception, or none?
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I disagree with several posters who say that my thinking about this possibility is a bad sign for marriage success. I think it would be more likely to succeed, because marriages that are based only on passion find it difficult to surmount obstacles later - keeping a level head may not be the best thing in terms of "I love you for ever and ever baby [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img]" but probably it's better in the long term. People who dismiss or ignore difficulties are less prepared to deal with them.
Agree or disagree?
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Love has more to do with self sacrifice than selfishness. If you love your wife, why would you do anything to hurt her and vice versa? Stop thinking about yourself and start thinking about the love of your life.
It was a big shift to get married because I was no longer #1. And now that I have kids, I am not even in the top three. Life has never been better.
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