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Dear Bison

Hey, im 20 years old and still a virgin. None of my friends are and its really getting me down these days. Im a decent looking guy and dont have trouble talking to girls, but when it gets time to seal the deal, I get extremly nervous and actually have the same feeling one would experience during a public speech, namely a fight or flight reaction. I think I then sabotage myself. This is really bothering me lately and I was wondering if you have any advice at all to help me get over my irrational and irritating (and embarrassing) problem.