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I'm not saying that you can't get women without money, but that having it helps a lot. People like signalling it and people like looking for the signals. It does a lot of your work of standing out from the crowd and giving a good impression for you, rightly or wrongly. Of course, the door is still always open for you to blow it.
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Just dress nice, and in your style. wearing stupid hats to attract attention is retarded and makes me want to punch you.
http://thesartorialist.blogspot.com/
compared to
http://www.abercrombie.com/anf/lifes.../homepage.html
if you are able to distinguish the hugely massive difference between the two sites, you are on your way.
Ps, anyone can flash cash, 99% fo the time most females wont have any idea of your real financial standing until its not an issue for them anymore (ie they like you for you), unless you are hugely successful, but for your typical mid 20-something, it doesnt matter much.
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I say dress any way you want. Your pot of gold is where YOU find it. Why worry about what the next guy is doing?
But having a sense of style when going out to meet women seems to work well, whether or not that is over the top, near the top, or simply a cut above most.
Be noticed. Be interesting. Bring excitement.
If there is nothing wrong with dressing up and going out and talking to 2-3 girls about any random shizan that comes out of your mouth at the time...why is it wrong to dress up and go out and talk to 20-30 girls about things you have put some thought into talking to them about? Why is it wrong to have game that is tighter than most of the rest of the other guys? Why is it wrong to have a plan from the get go? An action oriented plan that you are actively managing the whole night, pacing and leading things to where you decided you want them to go?
If you goal is to go out and spend $50 bucks buying strange women drinks in the hopes one will latch on to you, have at it.
What's wrong with going out and having the goal of talking to 20 chicks (spending no money on them because your value is yourself, you don't bribe strange women to pay attention to you) and trying to leave with one that night?
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I agree completely and that was my point. People buy abercrombie and fitch because everyone else is, and they are worrying about the next guy. The people from that blog, look good because they found their style and what works for them. Personally, Im a fashion nerd, dressing is an art, its about the only artsy thing I do, I like reading whats in style etc, but also, I rarely like any of it, there are some things that I really like though that suit me, so incorporate that. Since I view it as art, I think wearing stupid hats, and all velvet wizard suits, is akin to the [censored] artists who poop on jesus' picture so they will get on tv.
the rest of your post kind of came out of nowhere, but ya, I agree with it.