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i haven't read the pua stuff, but i have read some old carnegie stuff, which is mostly about developing solid relationships in business and in general...

seems like this stuff is very opposed to that stuff, which basically says treat others very well, don't criticize other etc...comments?

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See, this is the basic misconception I keep reading here about what being an alpha man and PUA is all about.

Not bashing you, at all, but I keep seeing people having opinions on stuff they evidently do not know much about.

I am european, know next to nothing about baseball, how would it look if I were to post in the sports forum about why team A is better than team B? I think that it would be so obvious so fast that I had no clue what I would be talking about, that I would be the laughing stock of that day.

Poor example maybe, but damn, the amount of crock I read here about what being a PUA is all about is so off.

For me, The way of the Superior Man of David Deida is what being an alpha-man is all about. Pick it up from the library, read it, then tell me about the questionable morality of striving to be the man Deida writes about.

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will check out those books...guess my question was worded poorly...was wondering more about whether they are similar or different, rather than making a statement, since i have only read the carnegie stuff...