[highhustla]

god damnit, I wish you nerds would actually think about things from the girls' perspectives.

Until I was about 18, I'd say I was an idealistic emo nerd w/ probably a lot of the same feelings you are trying to describe. I didn't have any traumatic experiences or anything that triggered my "conversion"--I just figured out I wasn't getting what I wanted (hot chicks on my dick ldo). Sidenote: figuring out what you actually want is kinda important.

The irony is, once I started doing whatever the [censored] I wanted, and REALLY being MYSELF, I finally got the girls.
This is a win/win because 1) you're doing what you want regardless, 2) girls respect and are attracted to this.

THIS is what PUA is about (I am not PUA FWIW, but I guess you could call me an "apologist"). It actually IS about being yourself, not the opposite.

Also, even if what you're looking for IS an LTR, not a one-night stand, there is still a LOT to be learned from the PUA's. You can [censored] a girl and turn it into a relationship, but not the other way around.

But seriously, think about it from the girls' perspective: who do you think she'd rather [censored]? The tough alpha-male or the sensitive pussy?

Also [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] how OP keeps repeating this is not about him, but can't STFU relating everything back to how awesome he is. Obviously not. Grow a pair and stop whining.