Re: Some Stuff About PUA (very long)
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"I find interest in other people - girls, dudes, kids, milkmen, old fogies at the park, whatever - to be very difficult to consciously manufacture. For me it's like a light switch. I have to notice something to set me off - some detail that seems interesting, something I can comment on or point out or give me a fresh angle to approach them from. With that in hand I usually just start talking and everything works out fine. Without it I have nothing to say at all. It's a completely binary, on-off thing. It's like people are invisible to me unless I already know something specific about them."
And you think this has nothing to do with any of the points Chuddo made about narcissism whatsoever?
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It sounds more like disassociation, which doesn't rule out narcisissm. But it seems to describe what he's talking about better.
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