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The key here lies in this paragraph:

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-Is there any merit to virtue from a position of weakness? My great difficulty with women at the moment is the problem of meeting one who a) I'm really attracted to and b) is available. As it stands, then, my sexual options are dependent on trying to get with girls that I'm not particularly into. .... and I generally find it very difficult to approach strangers who are not obviously inviting. ...Is there ever any actual merit in that?

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There are hundreds of available women whom you probably come into contact with on a daily basis. ....or use "kino"

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Yeah, god forbid you have the self-confidence to touch a woman that is interested in you both physically and/or emotionally and/or intellectually.
Besides, if you've totally misjudged, they will pull back and be even more obvious about their disinterest.
{Junt, I agreed with the rest of what you wrote.}

Here's a clue for some:
Women like to be touched by guys they are interested in,
Women like interesting guys to come up and talk to them,
Women like guys who can stand out from the crowd and are self-confident,
Women like men who act like men and can take charge,
Women like to have sex as much as if not more so than guys, particularly once they hit 30,

Women aren't going to magically fall in love with you if you can't bring yourself to even speak to them, or your only conversation skills are discussing Poker, Wii, GTA/GT, 'Where'd you go to school/Major, where are you from/live, where do you work/which firm?'