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PUA can help you keep a girl interested

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(this isn't directed at just you Traz, you happened to write it though [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] ) Lines like this is what I don't understand about the PUA pov. If a girl's not interested in me, since we, as flawed human beings, tend to hold onto or first impressions, how is using something from the PUA toolbox going to change her mind in a positive manner long term? Doesn't she have a right (for a lack of a better term) to not be interested? Maybe this is a problem I need to deal with about myself, but I cannot be interested in somebody who isn't genuinely interested in me as well.

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There are things men can do which cause interest/attraction to drop. There are things men can do which cause interest/attraction to increase.

PUA stuff can help you do the things which cause interest/attraction to increase, and to avoid doing things which cause interest/attraction to drop.

This isn't tricking a girl into staying with you, or any silly notion like that. It's simply being a person that she will want to be with for a long period of time. PUA can help you become that person.

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Thank you for clearing that up, I've learned a lot in this thread, specifically that it's not all parlor tricks used to get women to have an (incorrectly, as you're still the same horrible person on the inside) favorable view of you long enough to get laid. Efforts one makes to make himself a better person are quite admirable and have no reason to be looked down upon, whether it's for internal reasons or to be more attractive to other people.