[mason55]

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Cardo,

"If PUA was, as one poster described it, merely about becoming a funny, unique, interesting person who commands attention, pushes boundaries and stands out, then I respectfully suggest that I should be teaching these courses."

I suspect that how people perceive you is quite different than how you perceive yourself.


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With all due respect, when I think Anacardo I do not think "funny." "Unique" maye but not in a very good way. More in the way of kid who wore Jedi clothes to school even when it wasn't Halloween. And the attention you command for yourself is "feel sorry for me and pity me" which is not what women want.

Maybe you're different from your online persona but I bet it's much less so than you think.


wrt the OP, i'll just echo what everyone else said. PUA is about make yourself a more attractive person. There's lots of ways to do that.

I've always thought of it kind of like finding a job.

There are temporary jobs that you can just show up and they pay you just like there's temporary women (aka sloots).

If you find a job you really want you're not going to scribble your resume on a bar napkin just like you wouldn't show up looking like a slob for a date with a woman you care about.

It takes a lot of jobs/women till you know what you really want.

And lastly, the PUA part, is when you're trying to find the right job/woman you have to market yourself. You can fluff up your resume without lying just like you can market yourself to women in a better way without being untrue to yourself or hiding the "real you"