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Well, let's not forget that the guy who didn't want to show was keeping magical information secret. Surely had he shown first, the fabric of space and time would have started to crumble and we'd all be left weeping in the dark. Thank goodness OP was there to prevent this!

Sorry, these silly showdown standoffs just make me laugh. Regardless of who shows first, it's generally widely accepted everywhere that if you think you have a winner, table the darn thing. You're not as good or special as you think you are. Everybody else wants to move on to the next hand.