Re: So I had a date tonight
A+ Advice, Goofy listen to this man he knows what he is talking about except #1 if u have lots of money it's dick not to pay.
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I think you're both right to a degree only pay for obvious things since she's already out w/ you. I think a drink is fine... But do not go overboard, money doesn't mean much if you've got other things to offer, tangible or not.
I've blown it w/ enough women in my nice guy days to know. You gotta get your head out of this "nice guy" thing, you can have sex and still be a nice guy, Women understand that men like(I'd say need) to have sex, it's okay, you're not the Big bad Wolf. I bet you'll never be a sleaze either, but If you want to eat you've got to kill. I know some of this stuff sounds cold man, but Figure out what you want.
You've got Pua on over your avatar ( I realize it's a joke) do you want that? or are you looking for love? I'm sure your indecisiveness is palpable around these women and that comes off as soft, most women don't want soft, even from a nice guy.
Don't worry you'll get there, just decide.
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