Re: Do you think it\'s wrong to take home a hooker?
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JA,
I think these feelings are pretty normal. Of all the young guys who come to Thailand, I would imagine that the majority of them steer away from the hooker scene. Imho, this is because the farang nightlife scene is kind of dirty and very direct "Whats your name? ... 2000 baht". Imho, it is probably not the idea of paying a girl money for sex that bothers you, but rather the type of girls who work as prostitutes.
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Yeah, that may be it. Also I feel the same way about (non-hooker) chicks who would take you home for the night.
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Is it the fact that you are paying for sex that you are uncomfortable?
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Nah, that's not it - cuz you pay in most relationships in one way or another.
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Myself personally I don't have an attraction to sleep with hookers, I just cant stop thinking of their client list. Ugly, smelly, creepy & just plain wierd old [censored] that can't get laid anywhere else... and you get sloppy seconds.. Ewwww...
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yeah same here. Same with any one-night-stand chick to a large degree.
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i think my problem (lol?) is that i'm not really into quick anonymous sex.
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Yeah, I actually think this is it. I associate sex with emotions and a relationship, and without that, it just seems empty and doesn't appeal to me - whether it be paid for or an unpaid one night stand. Maybe I have too much estrogen ...
Hmm ... ok this brings up a new question. If I find one-night-stand chicks dodgy cuz they sleep with so many people (or maybe it's because they have sex without a relationship), why don't I think the guys that do it are the same? Maybe it's because they are people I know who are actually good people in every other aspect of their life and would never intensionally do something bad to anyone. But are they any different to the chicks really?
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