Re: Open relationships
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i think they don't tend to work because that's not how we're socialized. it's not even (usually) something where we can make a conscious decision, it's more rooted in the patterns of attachment and behavior modeling we encounter from a very young age.
ms thumb and i have discussed many times how humans are probably not exactly 'wired' for monogamy, but i still don't think i could let some other dude plow her.
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it's kind of like how you can't voluntarily piss your pants cause of social conditioning.
go ahead. try. bet you can't do it.
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