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In case there is a question about her having made a "motiion towards sex" ...

Girl is trying to convince me to get new clothes...whole shebang, shoes, boxers, shirts, hair, etc. I said "lol psht maybe for sexual favors" and the reply was "how about if the sexual favors come after the clothes" we kinda joked around for a bit because i didn' think she was serious, but then she listed all the things i had to do and i was like eh? and then...

GIRL (11:07:14 PM): hey thats the deal
DOC (11:07:16 PM): this is going to be like a $200 excursion
DOC (11:07:24 PM): explain the deal in words
GIRL (11:07:28 PM): haha i already did
DOC (11:07:38 PM): do it again

GIRL (11:07:44 PM): you have to do exactly what i say
GIRL (11:07:48 PM): no complaining
DOC (11:07:51 PM): and
GIRL (11:08:03 PM): and what lol
DOC (11:08:12 PM): theres gotta be an end-game in the deal for me geez
GIRL (11:08:17 PM): and then i get drunk
GIRL (11:08:48 PM): *tip* being drunk makes it harder to get off
a bit later, after i expressed some hesitation, concerning a bet with my friends (stupid bet really, but you'll get the gist of it from the convo)

GIRL (11:17:23 PM): its just hilarious that i offered to let you win the bet and you wont take it
DOC (11:18:37 PM): the bet involves intercourse
DOC (11:18:40 PM): for one thing
DOC (11:18:46 PM): and for another thing, i dont care about the bet
GIRL (11:18:53 PM): i know that
GIRL (11:21:55 PM): id rather that than other things
DOC (11:22:26 PM): lol why is that
GIRL (11:22:49 PM): then you're in charge, not me


DOC (11:32:39 PM): im pretty sure i just got bribed [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]
GIRL (11:32:56 PM): lol no you didnt get bribed
GIRL (11:33:07 PM): its just an extra part of it


is that better

this conversation occured BEFORE the whole "You know, Doc, I think I might actually have feelings for you but I need time to work it out" conversation, in case you're wondering why i didn't go tap it right then and there...in the other, second more serious conversation, she mentioned that it was a GOOD SIGN that I did not immediately say "so can i come over", which I am now extending to future physical agression; she thought it was good that i let it go slow at first, I do not see any reason to change my current course.

with the knowledge(that she told me she would have been like "umm nevermind" if I had immediately gone for the kill, do you guys STILL think I oughta just make a move on her?? I feel that's just going to backfire incredibly, and destroy our friendship which could still be maintained (I'm not going to lie; I am pretty emotionally dependent on her right now and I would rather it stay the way it is than have it get destroyed by doing something stupid/fast rather than slow/fixable)