Re: Having kids, pros and cons?
i'm 36 and have some of the same qualities you mention. i like things neat and tidy...i also always enjoyed the freedom to do whatever i wanted; whenever i wanted.
my daughter is now 2 years old. it was an extremely difficult adjustment for me the first year or so. having nearly every minute of my day planned around every minute of my daughter's day (and wife's).
in the last year or so; after i finally accepted that things were changing...things have been pretty awesome.
having a child doesn't just change your life...it completely demolishes and re-writes it
i can't possibly see regretting it; no matter what happens in the future
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