[Blarg]

That's fair.

And also, so is questioning your idea that an adoption would be easier than an abortion. This might be the case if you have strong religious feelings about such things, but even that's not certain, and otherwise, no.

Disturbing is that the fate of the child is not really being discussed so much as the fate of the parents, it seems. You seem to have some vague idea it's better the kid be born, but no idea what to do next. Considering it's the fate of the kid you're talking about, you need to get some clarity on that.