[vhawk01]

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Using sex as a means to happiness is on par with drug use and alcoholism. I can understand the Christian point of view although I am not a Christian. While I don't agree with the way the bible explains it, I do believe he should search for happiness in spirituality not in superficial physical pleasure but from spiritual enlightenment or real love from a real human being. And while I may be inclined to buy him a prostitute once or twice just as I would accept him drinking on occasion, I would never accept prostitution as "the only thing that makes him happy", I wouldn't be able to live with the guilt.

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Hey, I like diet pepsi ( artificial sugar).

"real love from a real .." whatever. All the guy can do is blink, so the chit chat required to build a relationship at the neighborhood bowling alley may be a bit much to expect. If it's one of the only pleasures he has left, why should I have guilt by setting it up for him. I'd feel very guilty if I didn't, actually worse than that.
If he wants to snort some white, listen to country music and watch American Idol, I'd have more of a problem :-)
I'll let him tell when he finds it non-fulfilling rather than play guardian nag on the basis of some goof prejudices I may have.

luckyme

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Yeah, the point of my previous response was basically: who says the guy is trying to find "ultimate happiness?"